Unique Baby Names
by Neil Street.
Expectant parents often say they are looking for a unique and unusual baby name. But what do they mean? Do they really want a name that is
totally unique? In the strictest sense, if you want such a name, then of course you want it to be the only one of its kind. But how realistic is
that?
Realistic or not, a sizeable number of prospective parents still try to come up with a "one-of-a-kind" name. Some names, such as Mackenzie,
now have literally dozens of spelling variations, including McKenzee, MacKinzee, and Machenzie. But taken to the extreme, the hunt for a unique
baby name can lead to some curious, clunky variants. Do you want your child to be named "Mukkenzy," after all other possible variations have been
taken, simply so your boy or girl can have that unique name? Probably not. You probably don't want to go with a name like Pilot Inspektor, Moxie
Crimefighter, or Version 2.0 either. Of late, this trend has caught up with parents and they are using more and more unique and unheard of
names for their babies. Like many other aspects of life, unusual names too have their advantages and disadvantages. Unusual names are sometimes
difficult to remember. But at the same time, they provide a unique identity to the individual. Common and popular names are easy to remember. But
they too have their disadvantages. They can sometimes create confusions.
The interesting fact about unusual baby names is that they do not remain unique or unusual for long. Over a period or time, they too have the
danger of becoming a common name if more and more parents use them. Some of the parents still stick to the traditional naming methods, whereas,
some other parents prefer unique names for their babies.
A growing body of research suggests that giving your child a unique baby name may not be the best thing for the child, longterm. This argument
holds that your name subtly influences how people see you, and this affects how they treat you. In turn, this influences your self-image and
self-esteem, starting as a small child. In its simplest form, a child with a 'weird' name, such as Elmer, may be continuously teased in school,
and this will hurt Elmer's self-image and future development. By contrast, 'Alexander,' named after the great emperor, may be empowered by his
name, because other people unconsciously respond to him with a certain level of respect.
Robert Needlman, MD, has written an interesting discussion of this psychological approach. The research implies that boys with unusual first
names tend to display more emotional disturbances than boys with more traditional names. But, as Dr. Needlman points out, it is important not to
overstate the case. Are the boys in question more troubled because of their names, or because of the parental support structure which gave them
strange names in the first place? Nonetheless, there are many instances where 'desirable' names are shown to lead to greater success.
But whether or not it's a good idea to give a child a unique name, some parents seem driven to find one. The following links may make it a
little easier. While these baby names are not totally unique, they are very unusual. They are real names, and some even have very interesting
histories. The boy's name Jago, for instance, is a variant of the name James, from Cornwall, in England. And the girl's name Lettice is another
old name, Latin in origin, and it means "gladness."
While all these names are "real," none of them has been in the top 1000 names in the last hundred years. Maybe they're not one hundred percent
unique. But they're unusual, out-of-the-ordinary, and very individual. If that's the kind of name you’re looking for, then this list is
definitely for you.
Unusual Girls Baby Names
Unusual Boys Baby Names
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